# Supporting a ‘good life’ for autistic children: Autistic adults’ and parents’ perspectives

**Authors:** Kate Simpson, Connie Allen, Elizabeth Wheeley, Elizabeth Pellicano, Melanie Heyworth, Jacquiline den Houting, Rachael Bowen, Dawn Adams

PMC · DOI: 10.1177/13623613261418945 · Autism · 2026-02-18

## TL;DR

This study explores what helps autistic children live a good life by gathering perspectives from autistic adults and parents, identifying four key areas for support.

## Contribution

The study co-produced insights with autistic people, revealing four themes for promoting quality of life in autistic children.

## Key findings

- Being accepted as their true self is crucial for autistic children's well-being.
- Finding activities that energize them is important for a good life.
- Physical environments that meet sensory needs significantly impact quality of life.

## Abstract

There has been limited research into what helps to promote autistic children’s quality of life. This qualitative study, co-produced with autistic people, aimed to identify, from multiple perspectives, what helps autistic children to live a ‘good life’. We conducted semi-structured interviews with autistic adults (n = 28) and parents of autistic children (n = 29). Using reflexive thematic analysis, we identified four themes: Being accepted by others in a way that allows the child to be themselves; Finding ‘the things that light [the child]’; Having a sense of control over their own life and Physical/sensory environments matter. All themes were common to both autistic adults and parents of autistic children, with the exception of one sub-theme, which was predominantly driven by autistic adults’ responses. These findings highlight potential pathways to support autistic children’s quality of life now and into the future.

There hasn’t been much research about what helps autistic children to live a ‘good life’ or to have a good quality of life. This makes it difficult to know how to help autistic children to do so. In this study, we asked autistic adults and parents of autistic children what they thought helped autistic children to live a ‘good life’. They mentioned four important areas. These were (a) autistic children being accepted as their real or true self, (b) autistic children finding the things that they enjoy and that energise them, (c) autistic children having a sense of control in their life and (d) physical environments that suit autistic children’s sensory needs. These are things that can be changed in the autistic child’s environment to support the autistic child in living a good life.

## Full-text entities

- **Diseases:** Autistic (MESH:D001321)

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