# Death Cafes: Brewing Up Conversations about Death

## TL;DR

Death Cafes provide a safe space for people to openly discuss death, attracting diverse participants who find the experience valuable and want to attend more.

## Contribution

The study demonstrates the effectiveness of Death Cafes in fostering open conversations about death across diverse age and gender groups.

## Key findings

- Participants ranged in age from 19 to 85 and included community members, students, and professors.
- Many attendees expressed a desire to continue participating in Death Cafes due to the open and non-judgmental environment.
- Death Cafes were found to be important for gerontologists in creating safe spaces for discussing death.

## Abstract

Death can be a difficult topic to talk about and conversations about the idea seem taboo. Death Cafes began in the U.K. in 2011 and in the U.S. in 2016. Since 2023, 13 Death Cafes in a university town in the Midwest were offered (N = 101). Survey results revealed participants were between the ages 19 to 85, including community members, college students, and professors. Approximately 69 percent were women, 22 percent were men, 2 percent were transgender, and 7 percent were gender non-conforming. Participants reported a range of religious and spiritual beliefs. Approximately 48 percent indicated that they were not religious, but 82 percent were spiritual; 51 percent were religious, and 16 percent were not spiritual. When participants were asked about why they attended, a range of responses were given including: “Invited by a friend, sounded interesting, curiosity” and “to learn more about preparing for death.” As attendees reflected, participants mentioned they enjoyed the open conversation without fear of being shut down for talking about death. One participant said, “It was great! People seemed free to discuss anything death related and everyone seemed open to discussion without judgment.” Many participants also commented that they “hoped to attend more in the future.” Death Cafes allow attendees the freedom to talk about difficult topics in a respectful environment where diverse viewpoints and perspectives are welcomed. These findings have implications for gerontologists and show the importance of creating safe and welcoming spaces for adults of different ages to discuss death.

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Source: https://tomesphere.com/paper/PMC12760809