# Partner Relationship Quality and Inclusion of Intimate Partners as Network Confidants of Older Adults

**Authors:** Yiang Li, Linda Waite

PMC · DOI: 10.1093/geroni/igaf122.838 · Innovation in Aging · 2025-12-31

## TL;DR

This study explores how older adults include their intimate partners in their social networks, finding that relationship quality strongly influences this inclusion.

## Contribution

The study reveals how relationship quality affects the integration of intimate partners into older adults' core discussion networks.

## Key findings

- Nearly one in four older adults does not list their spouse or partner as a core confidant.
- Positive relationship indicators like time spent together and satisfaction increase the likelihood of naming a partner as a confidant.
- Highly educated individuals show a stronger link between relationship support and confidant designation.

## Abstract

Robust social networks and high-quality intimate partnerships each promote health in later life, but little is known about how older adults integrate spouses and partners into their core discussion networks. Using data from the National Social Life, Health, and Aging Project (NSHAP), this paper examines the likelihood that older adults name their spouse or partner as a “core confidant” and how relationship quality shapes that designation. Among 1,844 respondents with an intimate partner, nearly one in four did not list that partner as a confidant. Naming a spouse as a confidant is strongly predicted by positive indicators of relationship quality, including time spent together, partner support, and relationship satisfaction. Conversely, partner strain lowers the probability of inclusion. The link between relationship support and confidant naming is most pronounced for highly educated respondents. We discuss the findings as reflecting social inequalities in the ability to integrate intimate ties into broader networks.

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Source: https://tomesphere.com/paper/PMC12759424